Don't lose sight.

Bartleby Gaines: Nah, I'm not going to answer your question, 'cause you guys have already made up your minds. I'm an expert in rejection, and I can see it on your faces. And it's too bad that you judge us by the way we look and not by who we are. Just because you want us to be more like them when the truth is we're not like them. And I am d--- proud of that fact. I mean, Harmon College and their - and their 100 years of tradition. But tradition of what? Of hazing kids and humiliating anyone who's a bit different? Of putting so much pressure on kids they turn into these - these stress freaks and caffeine addicts.

Dean Van Horne: Your phony school demeans real colleges everywhere!

Bartleby Gaines: Why? Why can't we both exist? Huh? You can have your grades, and your rules and your structure and your ivory towers, and then we'll do things our way. Why do we have to conform to what you want?

Dean Van Horne: Your curriculum is a joke, and you, sir, are a criminal.

Bartleby Gaines: You know what? You're a criminal. 'Cause you rob these kids of their creativity and their passion. That's the real crime! Well, what about you parents? Did -did the system really work out for you? Did it teach you to follow your heart, or to just play it safe, roll over? What about you guys? Did you always want to be school administrators? Dr. Alexander, was that your dream? Or maybe no, maybe you wanted to be a poet. Maybe you wanted to be a magician or an artist. Maybe you just wanted to travel the world. Look, I - I - I - I lied to you. I lied to all of you, and I'm sorry. Dad, especially to you. But out of that desperation, something happened that was so amazing. Life was full of possibilities. A - and isn't that what you ultimately want for us? As parents, I mean, is - is that, is possibilities. Well, we came here today to ask for your approval, and something just occurred to me. I don't give a s---. Who cares about your approval? We don't need your approval to tell us that what we did was real. 'Cause there are so few truths in this world, that when you see one, you just know it. And I know that it is a truth that real learning took place at South Harmon. Whether you like it or not, it did. 'Cause you don't need teachers or classrooms or - or fancy highbrow traditions or money to really learn. You just need people with a desire to better themselves, and we got that by the shit at South Harmon. So you can go ahead, sign your forms, reject us and shoot us down, and do whatever you gotta do. It doesn't really matter at this point. Because we'll never stop learning, and we'll never stop growing, and we'll never forget the ideals what were instilled in us at our place. 'Cause we are S--- heads now, and we'll be S---heads forever and nothing you say can do or stamp can take that away from us! So go!

--Accepted, 2006. Quote from IMDb.com

I'm not a big movie watcher, but there are those times when I sit back to watch one and ideas that the movie was based on really gets me thinking.

How many people out there had that dream job? They wanted to play saxophone in a jazz band or become a movie star and get splashed across the big screen. How many of them got pushed away from that dream because of pressure from their parents, their peers, or society itself.

Getting kicked out into the world can be a humbling experience, but it doesn't mean you should lose sight of your dreams. I have gone without many, many times, but I know what I want from life and I won't let anything stop me and I've come up with a few "rules" to live by:

-->It's okay to cry when everything seems to be going against you.

-->It's good to work hard, but always remember to take time for yourself

-->Be smart about who you trust and where you get your information.

-->If there is ever a chance -- listen and learn, to everything and everyone, because you never know where you'll find that one thing that gives you the strength to get through one more day.